Very early one morning, last week, I got a disturbing phone call. On the other end the person used every conceivable obscene word in the Trinidadian language and she spoke about my skin tone, repeatedly saying that I was Black.
But back to the phone call. Why do WE women subject ourselves to humiliation and denigration for a man who maybe didn’t respect us in the first place? Deal with the man and not the woman. Deal with your relationship, because maybe the problem existed long before I came along. I am not apologetic, because it has happened to me, countless times and probably still occurring. I am very curious though as to why we get into commitments that we can’t seem to follow through on? On top of it all, she threatened to tell on me. I laugh now, but I was scared shitless. Then I thought clearly about it, and I made a decision a long time ago, I am an adult and every thing I do, I do it on purpose. I knew the consequences of my actions, so I’ll deal with it. So to her, I say, bring it on, BITCH!